Child custody and parent time are legal terms which are used to describe the legal and practical relationship between a parent and his or her child, such as the right of the child to make decisions , and the parent’s duty to care for the child. In Michigan the issue of which parent the child will reside with and the frequency of each parents parenting time is determined in accordance with the best interests standard.
A: People often think about custody in terms of “legal” custody and “physical” custody. Legal custody means having the right to make important decisions about your children, such as where they go to school, what religion they practice, and major medical decisions. Physical custody refers to the children’s living arrangements.
A: Custody can be “sole” or “joint”. Sole custody means only one parent has custody. Joint custody means the parents share custody. If parents share legal custody, they must make important decisions about their kids together. If parents share physical custody, the children take turns living with each parent
A: A parenting time schedule tells when the children spend time with each parent. If a court order says “reasonable” parenting time, parents must work out the specific dates, times, and other conditions together. The children’s ages, how far apart the parents live and the parents’ schedules can affect a parenting time schedule.
If a court orders specific parenting time, all the details are included in the court order. It may work best to have a specific parenting time schedule if you and the other parent can’t easily talk to one another or agree on a parenting time schedule.
Many family courts have a standard parenting time schedule. A standard parenting time schedule normally gives parents alternating weeks and/or weekends. Holidays are split between the parents, and they switch each year. For example, if this year the mom has the children for Christmas Eve and the dad has the children for Christmas Day, next year the dad will have Christmas Eve and the mom will have Christmas Day.
A: You and your child’s other parent may be able to work out custody and parenting time for your children. If you aren’t able to agree, the court will decide custody and parenting time based on “the best interests of the child.” This legal test requires the court to consider these 12 factors:
Factor (a): The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parties involved and the child;
Factor (b): The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to give the child love, affection, and guidance and to continue the education and raising of the child in his or her religion or creed, if any;
Factor (c): The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to provide the child with food, clothing, and medical care or other remedial care recognized under the laws of this state in place of medical care, and other material needs;
Factor (d): The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the desirability of maintaining continuity;
Factor (e): The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home or homes;
Factor (f): The moral fitness of the parties involved;
Factor (g): The mental and physical health of the parties involved;
Factor (h): The home, school, and community record of the child;
Factor (i): The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child to be old enough to express a preference;
Factor (j): The willingness and ability of each of the parties to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents (assuming a relationship with each parent is good for the child);
Factor (k): Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed against or witnessed by the child;
Factor (l): Any other factor considered by the court to be relevant to a particular child custody dispute.
A: When changing an order, a court makes custody decisions differently than when making the first custody order. The court won’t change the custody arrangements unless the party asking for the change shows there is either “proper cause” or a “change of circumstances” to consider the change. This is sometimes called a threshold.
Proper cause or a change of circumstances is more significant than normal life changes. It must be something that has a big impact on the child. Only after proper cause or a change of circumstances is shown can the court reconsider what custody arrangements are in the best interests of the child.
A: If the court finds there is proper cause or a change or circumstances to reconsider the best interests factors, it must still look at whether an established custodial environment exists.
If the court finds an established custodial environment, a higher standard of proof is needed to change that environment. The person wanting the change will have to meet that higher standard of proof. To change custody, the evidence must be clear and convincing that the change is in the best interests of the child.
A: To decide parenting time, the court uses the 12 best interests of the child factors. The court also uses these other factors to decide how often each parent has parenting time, how long visits are, and whether the parenting time is supervised:
Factor (a): Any special needs of the child;
Factor (b): Whether the child is nursing;
Factor (c): Whether abuse or neglect of a child during parenting time is likely;
Factor (d): Whether abuse or neglect of a parent during parenting time is likely;
Factor (e): The inconvenience and impact on the child of traveling for parenting time;
Factor (f): Whether a parent is reasonably likely to exercise parenting time;
Factor (g): Whether a parent has frequently failed to exercise reasonable parenting time;
Factor (h): The threatened or actual detention of the child with the intent to retain or conceal the child from the other parent or from a third person who has legal custody. A custodial parent’s temporary residence with the child in a domestic violence shelter shall not be construed as evidence of the custodial parent’s intent to retain or conceal the child from the other parent;
Factor (i): Any other relevant factors.